A few months ago, during the primary I was at work, working with a young white millennial woman. This girl is a wonderful person, intelligent, hard working compassionate, everything I want to see in a young person. She will go far and I wish the best for her. Out of the blue she brought up a joke about Hillary and Bernie, the premise of which is that Bernie would stop for a person in need but Hillary would not. The impact of that joke did not hit me until that night. How I wondered, could someone look at Mrs. Clinton, at everything she has done, and all that she has stood for, and assume that she would not stop to help a person in need?
I should have known then, that my thoughts that women would support Hillary, not just because she was a woman, but because she was intelligent, well qualified and frankly whatever you what to say about her, a decent person, especially when she was up against Donald Trump were wrong. I never would never imagined in my wildest dreams that 53% of white women would vote for Donald Trump over Hillary but I should have known...yes that was me being arrogant.
I suspected that many Millennials and blacks might either not vote for her in as high numbers as for Obama, the former because of their dislike of her, the latter partly because of the gutting of the laws that prevented suppression of the black vote and partly for the younger black and hispanic male voters, and their dislike of her. But I really thought that that would be made up by the white women who might vote for her...boy was I wrong. How arrogant of me. In conversations, they were telling me that they were not going to, and I didn't listen. When people tell you who they are...listen.
The truth is that the white vote did not go for Obama, either time these are the results from 2008 and he lost white women, then and in 2012 it was the same story.
2008
|
Group
|
Obama
|
McCain
| |
|---|---|---|---|---|
All Voters
|
Pct.
|
53%
|
45%
| |
SEX
|
Men
|
47
|
49
|
48
|
Women
|
53
|
56
|
43
| |
RACE
|
White
|
74
|
43
|
55
|
African-American
|
13
|
95
|
4
| |
Hispanic
|
9
|
67
|
31
| |
Asian
|
2
|
62
|
35
| |
Other
|
3
|
66
|
31
| |
2012
|
Group
|
Obama
|
Romney
| |
|---|---|---|---|---|
All Voters
|
Pct.
|
51%
|
47%
| |
SEX
|
Men
|
47
|
45
|
52
|
Women
|
53
|
55
|
44
| |
RACE
|
White
|
72
|
39
|
59
|
African-American
|
13
|
93
|
6
| |
Hispanic
|
10
|
71
|
27
| |
Asian
|
3
|
73
|
26
| |
Other
|
2
|
58
|
38
| |
White people were moving away from Obama, and it should not have been a surprise that they did not move towards Hillary. Frankly this election to me seems less of a change election and more an election for the return to the status quo. People were tired of change, because the change was making them uncomfortable, they wanted to go back to seeing a white male president and that is what they voted for. Obama's presidency reminded them every day that their numbers are no longer in their favor, they did not vote for him, and they resented those that did.
But to try to explain the election that simply is frankly too simple. There was more going on. One of the things that I noted as Hillary ran, was that people called her a 'flawed' candidate, I find that term interesting. I don't think I have ever heard that of another candidate, other candidates do things that are wrong (the list that Trump did could fill a swimming pool), but Hillary as a person, WAS wrong, was flawed. The media and those that don't like her keep pointing to things she did that made her flawed, but don't seem to think that the same things her husband did, or that Trump did make them flawed.
Hillary's problem was that she was arrogant. Her flaw was that she was a woman. Because if you look at it objectively, if none of the men who did worse things than she did were flawed, then her real flaw has to be her gender. She was arrogant to think that she could do things that men did and get away with it. Frankly, as I look back, I am actually surprised at what a good candidate she was, how honest she was, and how hard she worked. That is what I took away from the wikileaks. But she was a deal maker and the same things that would never have touched a male candidate, ended up being her downfall.
She was not young, she was not pretty, she was a moderate, she was thoughtful, she was an introvert, she was intelligent, and she was unbreakable. She was everything that American loves in men, but has real issues with in women. As someone said... "now she can go and be a good Grandmother"...which is what older women like her should be doing.. not running a country.
I have to admit that the release of her emails (which troubles me on a visceral level as it was due to Russian intervention, and that the Russians successfully interfered in an American election), reminded me of the public shaming that has happened to other women, that men see as having overstepped their roles. What happens to them is that someone hacks their emails, and shames them by releasing all their private information, for the world to see.
Pretty much like what happened to Lady Godiva.
Hillary like me thought that we were better than we actually are, and rather than looking away, we all looked and relished at her nakedness.
My final note is the betrayal this election of black women, by white women (as a voting block). Black women were Hillary's most loyal voting block and most white women basically F@#$Ked them over as they tried to elect one of them as president. I am sorry but there is no other way to say this. Because while some white women will come to regret this (and they will), the brunt of what has happened will fall on black women and their families. On hispanic women and their families. That I find to be so very sad especially for those young women who think that older women should not be in positions of power...just remember that one day, you will be an older woman. But if you find yourself more comfortable with a Melania Trump, and even a Michelle Obama (who made sure she was never really threatening as a powerful woman), than Hillary, then you really need to be honest with yourselves about why that is. Michelle you love, perhaps because she has made it clear, she has no interest in politics or running for president. She was smart, she learned what happens to first ladies, that presume to be more than just first ladies by watching Hillary Clinton.
So yes, Hillary and I were wrong. We thought that America, was better than this, and would not reward bad behavior, but we did. Not because we wanted change, but because we wanted this change to stop. We wanted things to go back to being familiar.
I hope that we were wrong about Republicans and Donald Trump. I hope that the Republicans understand that they can't blame anyone for their failures. That they can do so much better by focusing on things that will help everyone, rather than those things that divide everyone. But I don't hold out much hope. They know they only have 2 years to get things done, unless something dramatic like 911 happens, they will lose the congress. So they will try to pass all those things that they know they won't be able to pass with divided congress.
But I will wait and see, what they chose to do, I will do what they were not prepared to do with Hillary Clinton, I will give them a chance.

